He sits cross-legged (yoga-style), you sit in his lap facing him. Wrap your legs around him and hug each other for support.
Best for tantric sex. Rocking, not thrusting, is the key when it comes to this very intimate position.
Lock into each other’s deep gaze to put some extra “oh” into the big O.
You straddle him, wrapping your legs around his body. He stands and supports you in his arms. You can start on the bed and have him pick you up without disengaging. (Or for the truly bold, you can hop aboard from standing position!).
He needs to spread his thighs slightly and not lock his knees. But if he has a bad back, this is a very bad idea!
Have him push you up against a wall—very carefully.
From missionary position, you raise your legs and extend them straight out (forming a “V”).
This allows for good body contact with the vulva.
Try grabbing your ankles. It can give you stability and an added stretch.
Lie on your stomach with your hands thrust between your legs. Grind your legs together and move your hips up and down so that your clitoris and pubic mound rub against your firmly held fingers.
Simple yet superb satisfaction.
It’s easy to add to most rear-entry positions, like the Flatiron or the Leapfrog.
With your body submerged and legs dangling out of the tub, start by giving yourself a rubdown up top before you move down to roam around under the water.
Relaxing in a warm sweet-smelling bath helps relieve tension, ease stress, and definitely gets you in the mood.
Add in a waterproof vibe to make waves or take advantage of the “pulse” setting on your detachable showerhead. Steady streams of water on the clitoris can be extremely pleasurable.
From a seated position, use your finger to “draw” a circle around your clitoris. Start slowly and increase speed and pressure, depending on your reaction.
This move is great for women who find direct clitoral pressure too intense for prolonged stimulation.
Tired of the “O” shape? Try tracing the letters of the alphabet on your c-spot to vary the sensation.
Ride the arm of a stuffed chair or couch, or the edge of a table or desk with a thick towel or blanket folded over it. Start with a small movement of the hips, and slowly build momentum.
Great if you like solid, steady pressure on your clitoris.
Grip the arm with your thighs and have your guy enter you from behind like the Doggy Style position. Just make sure not to break any furniture.
Lie on your back and bring your knees in toward your chest. Insert one or two fingers deeply into your vagina. As you withdraw your finger, press against the front of your vagina and urethra and curl your finger in a beckoning gesture.
With this motion it’s normal to feel a slight urgency to urinate at first, but with practice and several sessions, you can expect to experience a warm, pleasurable experience.
Try it with only one leg bent to your chest, extending the other, for a variation on the sensation.
Lay on one side with one leg extended and the other bent. With one hand, gently separate and hold your labia to the sides, and apply a tiny drop of lube to your exposed clitoris. Then, with the opposite hand, begin tapping gently on it.
Tapping, instead of rubbing, can cause quick and intense sensations for those who find direct stimulation too intense.
Tapping harder or faster will create different sensations. See how long you can last or ask your partner to take part in the fun.