CHAMPAGNE ROOM
How
He sits and you sit on top of him, facing away.
Benefit
It helps you regulate the pace and intensity of his thrusts.
Bonus
Try doing it on the stairs or the edge of the tub.
THE OM
How
He sits cross-legged (yoga-style), you sit in his lap facing him. Wrap your legs around him and hug each other for support.
Benefit
Best for tantric sex. Rocking, not thrusting, is the key when it comes to this very intimate position.
Bonus
Lock into each other’s deep gaze to put some extra “oh” into the big O.
UPSTANDING CITIZEN
How
You straddle him, wrapping your legs around his body. He stands and supports you in his arms. You can start on the bed and have him pick you up without disengaging. (Or for the truly bold, you can hop aboard from standing position!).
Benefit
He needs to spread his thighs slightly and not lock his knees. But if he has a bad back, this is a very bad idea!
Bonus
Have him push you up against a wall—very carefully.
VALEDICTORIAN
How
From missionary position, you raise your legs and extend them straight out (forming a “V”).
Benefit
This allows for good body contact with the vulva.
Bonus
Try grabbing your ankles. It can give you stability and an added stretch.
BELLY DOWN
How
Lie on your stomach with your hands thrust between your legs. Grind your legs together and move your hips up and down so that your clitoris and pubic mound rub against your firmly held fingers.
Benefit
Simple yet superb satisfaction.
Bonus
It’s easy to add to most rear-entry positions, like the Flatiron or the Leapfrog.
BUBBLE THE FUN
How
With your body submerged and legs dangling out of the tub, start by giving yourself a rubdown up top before you move down to roam around under the water.
Benefit
Relaxing in a warm sweet-smelling bath helps relieve tension, ease stress, and definitely gets you in the mood.
Bonus
Add in a waterproof vibe to make waves or take advantage of the “pulse” setting on your detachable showerhead. Steady streams of water on the clitoris can be extremely pleasurable.
CIRCLE PERK
How
From a seated position, use your finger to “draw” a circle around your clitoris. Start slowly and increase speed and pressure, depending on your reaction.
Benefit
This move is great for women who find direct clitoral pressure too intense for prolonged stimulation.
Bonus
Tired of the “O” shape? Try tracing the letters of the alphabet on your c-spot to vary the sensation.
COUCH GRIND
How
Ride the arm of a stuffed chair or couch, or the edge of a table or desk with a thick towel or blanket folded over it. Start with a small movement of the hips, and slowly build momentum.
Benefit
Great if you like solid, steady pressure on your clitoris.
Bonus
Grip the arm with your thighs and have your guy enter you from behind like the Doggy Style position. Just make sure not to break any furniture.
GET TO THE G-SPOT
How
Lie on your back and bring your knees in toward your chest. Insert one or two fingers deeply into your vagina. As you withdraw your finger, press against the front of your vagina and urethra and curl your finger in a beckoning gesture.
Benefit
With this motion it’s normal to feel a slight urgency to urinate at first, but with practice and several sessions, you can expect to experience a warm, pleasurable experience.
Bonus
Try it with only one leg bent to your chest, extending the other, for a variation on the sensation.