How

While he sits on the bed or a chair, back yourself into his lap and spoon each other while seated.

Benefit

Because you can’t see your partner, fantasizing is easier, which can add too the excitement.

Bonus

Tighten the muscles of your pelvic floor so you can grip him and keep him erect.

How

With both of you standing, you bend over at the waist; he enters you from behind.

Benefit

Bending over helps make the vaginal walls tighter and increases the intensity of the friction.

Bonus

Have him tickle your clitoris with his free hand, or loosely tie your hands together with a silky scarf.

How

Both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. You bring your knees up slightly while he slides up behind your pelvis and enters you from behind.

Benefit

Allows for more skin-to-skin contact, increasing your stimulation.

Bonus

Have him place his hands on your shoulders to increase the intensity and deepness of the thrust.

How

From the missionary position, without disengaging, turn together onto your sides, using your arms to support your upper bodies.

Benefit

You get the same full-body press and can gaze into each other’s eyes.

Bonus

Try intertwining your legs with his or fondling him down below.

How

He sits, legs bent, leaning back on his hands and forearms. You do the same and then inch toward him until you connect.

Benefit

You’ll both feel really connected looking at each other. Increase your stimulation by grinding your clitoris against his pelvis.

Bonus

Slide ice cubes down his chest and let the cold water collect at the base of his pelvis.

How

He sits on the edge of the bed and you sit on him, facing away.

Benefit

This move will hit the spot…as in your G-spot. Good for G-spot stimulation while you can use your hands to stimulate his scrotum or perineum.

Bonus

Bring your knees closer to your chest, supporting your feet on the bed.

How

You lie on your back while he straddles you. He then gently inserts his penis through the tight opening created by your semi-closed legs.

Benefit

Tightness increases the intensity of the penetration.

Bonus

Have him fondle your breasts or gently hold down your wrists.

How

He sits with his legs straight and you sit on top of him with bent knees on top of his thighs, and you both lean back.

Benefit

Gives you both nice views of each other’s full bodies. You’ll also have control over the depth, speed, and angle of the thrusts.

Bonus

Have him use his hand to rub your clitoris, or use your own. Lean back farther for extra G-spot stimulation.

How

Lie back with your legs raised all the way up and your ankles crossed behind your own head. He enters you from a missionary position.

Benefit

Your hands are free to work your clitoris.

Bonus

Have him “ride high,” rubbing his pubic bone against your clitoris, or “ride low,” directly stimulating your G-spot with the head of his penis.