How

He sits with his legs straight and you sit on top of him with bent knees on top of his thighs, and you both lean back.

Benefit

Gives you both nice views of each other’s full bodies. You’ll also have control over the depth, speed, and angle of the thrusts.

Bonus

Have him use his hand to rub your clitoris, or use your own. Lean back farther for extra G-spot stimulation.

How

Lie back with your legs raised all the way up and your ankles crossed behind your own head. He enters you from a missionary position.

Benefit

Your hands are free to work your clitoris.

Bonus

Have him “ride high,” rubbing his pubic bone against your clitoris, or “ride low,” directly stimulating your G-spot with the head of his penis.

How

Lie on your back with your legs raised and folded over so that your ankles are on either side of your head, while he squats and dips his penis in and out of your vagina.

Benefit

Aside from getting that eye contact, the extra rush of blood into your head will increase the ecstasy.

Bonus

Have him dribble chocolate syrup or honey into your mouth. It gets more of your senses involved and amps up the whole experience.

How

You get into a partial bridge position, with your weight resting on your shoulders. He enters you from a kneeling position.

Benefit

It allows him easy access to stimulate your clitoris and massage the mons pubis.

Bonus

Throw one leg up against his shoulder for deeper penetration.

How

He sits and you sit on top of him, facing away.

Benefit

It helps you regulate the pace and intensity of his thrusts.

Bonus

Try doing it on the stairs or the edge of the tub.

How

He sits cross-legged (yoga-style), you sit in his lap facing him. Wrap your legs around him and hug each other for support.

Benefit

Best for tantric sex. Rocking, not thrusting, is the key when it comes to this very intimate position.

Bonus

Lock into each other’s deep gaze to put some extra “oh” into the big O.

How

You straddle him, wrapping your legs around his body. He stands and supports you in his arms. You can start on the bed and have him pick you up without disengaging. (Or for the truly bold, you can hop aboard from standing position!).

Benefit

He needs to spread his thighs slightly and not lock his knees. But if he has a bad back, this is a very bad idea!

Bonus

Have him push you up against a wall—very carefully.

How

From missionary position, you raise your legs and extend them straight out (forming a “V”).

Benefit

This allows for good body contact with the vulva.

Bonus

Try grabbing your ankles. It can give you stability and an added stretch.

How

Lie on your stomach with your hands thrust between your legs. Grind your legs together and move your hips up and down so that your clitoris and pubic mound rub against your firmly held fingers.

Benefit

Simple yet superb satisfaction.

Bonus

It’s easy to add to most rear-entry positions, like the Flatiron or the Leapfrog.